跟眼前看到的自己說話(誠以對己)，是看到對方的心唯一手段

反之亦然，跟眼前的對方說話，亦是唯一看見自己的唯一方法

Talk with your self who ahead your eyes, is the only way to see otherone's heart.

Vice versa, talk with others ahead your eyes, is also the only way to see the heart yourself.